"I MARRIED HIM FOR MONEY BUT AFTER MARRIAGE EVERYTHING STOPPED" - LADY SPEAKS

We got this story from one of our readers. For the sake of anonymity the names are changed.

My name is Jane. I am in my late 20s. I have been married for 3 years. Okay let me start over again, I am writing this story because I want girls to read and learn from my experience.

I dated this man for a while, not minding the fact that he has three wives. I was only interested in getting married, and it didn’t really matter who, as long as he had money, and I could be tagged a high society girl. I eventually got married to the man, and he promised to buy me a house, car, and startup a business for me.

I got pregnant almost immediately and moved to one of his houses.
I thought the guy would buy me a car immediately since I was carrying his baby but he always asked his driver to take me wherever I wanted. His excuse was that he did not want me to drive around because of my condition.

I later mentioned it to him and he told me he was going to get it once I had my baby.

Three months after my baby was born, I raised the issue of starting my business and getting my car again, and he just waved it off.

 After six months I couldn’t take it again because the guy started giving me a stipend monthly for upkeep and I had to do something. So I called one of my exes and told him my predicament. He was kind enough to give me 500k I added 200k I had to it and started my business.

The man asked me where I got the money from I told him it was my savings. After a while he gave me a 2-door golf car but I was disappointed because his other wives drive SUVs but the man would not hear of it, he said that’s what he had for me so I took it.

When the shame became too much I started sleeping with older men again secretly. I went to my family to tell them I was planning to leave the man, but they disagreed because they all opposed my marriage at first and they all insisted I must continue.

I am already making plans  to leave the man next year as I can’t continue to suffer. I don’t care what you guys think or say about me, I just want ladies like me to read and learn that “All that glitters is not gold”.

I married him for MONEY but after marriage everything stopped. He became a new man. 3 years of marriage and nothing to show for it.

What do you think? Greed or just pure idiocy?