We have a case of an ex prostitute who is married to the love of her life after an early life living in a home that was abusive and detrimental to her health because it affected her psychologically to the point that she was all by herself for close to two months, not communicating with anybody.
When she couldn’t take it anymore, she ran away from home at the age of 19 and became a prostitute for 4 years ; where she met a patron that fell in love with her at first sight.
After 2 years, they got married and ever since then, this man kept on judging her based on her past, he had never for once trusted any other man who came close to her because he felt like “once a prostitute, always a prostitute”…
The bitter truth that he seemed not to get is the fact that this woman had been totally faithful to him ever since the relationship became official.
His distrust for her had even gotten him to jail several times and now he is left with no friends.
At some point, she disclosed to me that she was at cross-roads as to making a decision whether to just walk away from the marriage and go back to her former profession of prostitution because her husband had closed down her business.
Now, let us have your honest opinion, is it that ex-prostitutes can't be faithful wives when they eventually get married?
Now men, why get married to one, if you know that you would judge her by her past, after-all, we all have been shoddy at one time or the other.
We're just saying, but why would anyone go as far as using people’s past in not just destroying them and making them feel worthless, but also killing their relationship…
So back to the question at hand….how do you advice a man who is in this similar situation?
How else do you make your partner forget or cope with your past?
I have a girlfriend who is an ex prostitute and we've been together for over a year and I been noticing that lately she wanna check on her ex boyfriends pictures and I caught her looking at her ex pimp online seeing if he's still locked ..I'm really getting tired of her excuses and I know I can do much better ...I love her and I'm just falling out of love ..what should I do
ReplyDeleteFall out of love. Same boat...you can't win dude, trust me. Their mind is brainwashed, and the ex is even probably sending long messages about how much greener the grass is on the other side. Prostitutes became prostitutes (other than childhood abuse and psychological damages) because it was the easy route...usually starts stripping, then the club owner pushes it to hand jobs, soon its the only way to make cash. UNFORTUNATELY that seemingly easy lifestyle is the draw...real life is hard, the fake life the pimp offers (do what you want, no one will bother you) seems easy (it isn't, they eventually all die). RUN...RUN WHILE YOU CAN
DeleteGetting involved with a women that had or I should say, probably still has a pimp was your first mistake.
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