This is one interesting yet controversial topic today.
Literally, it means once a woman who is of a different skin color than black
has sexual relations with a black man or series of black men, it becomes overly
impossible for her to date a man of a different skin color. There are
variations to this saying: Once you go black, we don't want you back, Once you
go Asian, you can't go Caucasian and once you go White, everything seems right.
Are you laughing too? It's widely believed that black guys have bigger sex
tools and more hungry libidos than the white folks. Some would say they show a kind
of loving different from what the white
guys have, but all this might be baloney. You should really look before you
leap.
Well, I'll only be posting my personal opinion here. You can
post yours in the comment box below. First, I think this is just a stereotype.
I would agree it could be true at times but the notion isn't exactly correct.
I've met white women who having dated black men, said they won't be dating white men anymore, and black women who have
sworn off dating black men. The truth of the matter is that, it all depends on
the person and the skin color doesn't really come into place here. The
appropriate saying should be: once you date it right, you'll never go wrong.
Some women will say the going black and not going back thing stems from the
sexual prowess and endowment of the men of African descent, but then aren't
there black guys with penises the size of my thumb and white guys whose penises
are jumbo sized? Did I hear you say size doesn't matter? We'll leave that for
some other day.
Sorry to piss in your cornflakes but your skin color really
has nothing to do with who dates you. If girls date you because you're black or
white, then you're dating the wrong girls. The first thing to be considered is
if he/she is dateable rather than his/her exoticness or libido. It's totally
fine if it's just a fling but still, ''once you go black, you can't go back''
isn't exactly very accurate. There are many factors to consider.
Just date it right guys. Going black and not going back is a
fetish like some guys not being able to date any girl but Latino girls and some
stuck on dating cougars. At the risk of sounding rigid, I'd be the first person
to say interracial dating is one of the best things that has happened to the
dating world, but if that black guy doesn't treat you well or the white dude
takes you for a ride, move on! Don't get caught up in the ''not being able to
go back stuff''.
Finally, date the person and not the skin color!
